Does this sound like you? Bah humbug. The holidays are here. I am so sad and depressed because my marriage is over and I have nothing to look forward to. I wish the holidays would just be over with! Many women find the first holiday season after a divorce or a break-up to … [Read more...]
This is my first Valentine's Day after my divorce and I am dreading it. My ex used to always plan special things for us to do and now all I am expecting is to sit at home and cry. Do you have any suggestions on what I might do? ~Alba in Missouri The first year after a … [Read more...]
Divorce brings many changes to the family dynamics, from the way the parents and children interact together as well as with the extended family. During the holiday season, we all want our families to resemble Norman Rockwell’s version, however, divorce squelches that fantasy. … [Read more...]
The number one mistake that many newly divorced folks make that ruin their holidays and delay their healing process is simply expectation. You might expect the holidays to be sad, lonely, dreadful and you fear being alone for the rest of your life. The holidays remind you of all … [Read more...]
It is the beginning of a brand new year. You may not feel like you have a lot to celebrate, especially if you are in the midst of an ugly divorce or a divorce that you did not want in the first place. We often think of the New Year as a new beginning. A chance to start fresh. … [Read more...]